什么是幸福呢？永远不要缅怀过往

陈佳新

A boy once asked me，“what do you think happiness is？” I hesitated for a long time， but still couldn’t find a good answer. Up to now， that question has been haunting in my mind.（有一次，一个男孩问我，“你认为幸福是什么？”我犹豫了很长时间，但仍然找不到一个好的答案。到目前为止，那个问题一直萦绕在我的脑海里。）

With time passing by， it dawns on me that actually happiness is very simple， and it can be a word or a small kind of act， which can bring me more or less some feelings and experiences.（随着时间的推移，我意识到幸福实际上很简单，它可以是一句话或一种小的行为，可以给我或多或少带来一些情感和经历。）

As a popular saying goes，“lucky people are cured of childhood all their life， while unlucky people spend all their life healing their childhood”. As far as our generation is concerned， most of us belong to the latter. There are so many sufferings that we feel it hard to obtain happiness. Just as a word：“The older we get， the unhappier we feel.”At the beginning， we are full of joy， gradually growing up. But， with time passing， we just find everything is not like what we have expected. What’s up？ Why are we always with a worried frown？（正如一句流行的话所说，“幸运的人一生被童年治愈，而不幸的人一生都在治愈的童年”。就我们这一代人而言，我们大多数人都属于后者。苦难太多了，我们觉得很难获得幸福。就像一句话所言：“我们年龄越大，我们就越不快乐。”“一开始，我们充满了快乐，逐渐成长。但是，随着时间的推移，我们发现一切都不像我们所期望的那样。怎么了？为什么我们总是忧心忡忡，愁眉紧锁？）

In this busy world， the word happiness is also becoming more and more luxurious. To this day， I still remember a word in the movie Up. Happiness is not immortal; it is not big fish and big meat; it is not the power that comes to hand. Happiness is about making each tiny wish come true， getting something to eat when you are hungry， having someone who loves you when you want to be loved. Clearly， it is easy to for us to achieve happiness if we try to live each day with your heart.（在这个忙碌的世界里，幸福这个词也变得越来越奢侈。直到今天，我还记得电影<<飞屋环游记>>里的一句台词：“幸福不是长生不老;不是大鱼大肉;不是权倾朝野。幸福就是让每一个小小的愿望成真，在你饿的时候有所食，在你想被爱的时候有一个爱你的人。显然，如果我们用心地去度过每一天，我们就很容易获得幸福。）

The pain of the past is still visible before eyes， while the happiness is gone quickly. And that’s so called happiness takes no account of time. No doubt， there are always full of twists and turns in our life， so happiness became more precious. However， in my perspective， happiness lies in every small kind of act or every affectionate word. As long as we try to feel with our heart， we will find it. In a word， happiness may be late， but he will never be absent. So， never mourn the past， and just spread your arms to embrace happiness if you find it.（過去的痛苦依然历历在目，然而幸福却转瞬即逝。这就是所谓的欢乐不觉时光过。毫无疑问，我们的生活总是充满了曲折，所以幸福才会变的更加弥足珍贵。然而，在我看来，幸福存在于每一个小小的行为或每一句深情的话语之中。只要我们试着用心去感受，我们就会找到它。总而言之，幸福可能会晚到，但它永远不会缺席。所以，永远不要哀悼缅怀过往，如果你找到了幸福，那么就张开双臂去拥抱它吧。）

指导老师：金雅娟封亚红