长大了有什么好处

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When we were kids, we all wanted to grow up! And when we grow up, we are always bewildered①bewildered 英 [bɪ'wɪldəd] adj. 困惑的；晕眩的v. 使困惑（bewilder的过去分词）about what to do now!

We still can't turn the phone off when out with our buddies.We still can't eat pizza and burgers everyday! Such are humans.

But wait, being adult is not as bad as it seems.

Not feeling locked into the immutable②immutable 英 [ɪ'mjuːtəb(ə)l] 美 [ɪ'mjutəbl] adj. 不变的；不可变的；不能变的social categories③categories 英 ['kætɪg(ə)rɪz] 美 ['kætəɡɔrɪz] n. 类 别（category的复数）；分类set for you by your peers④peers 英 [pɪrs] 美 [pɪr] n. 平辈，同事（peer的复数）; The ability to choose the people you want to hang out with or avoid.

The ability to have significant personal insight about what love-interests, jobs, and studies are best suited for your particular personality type and psychological needs.

Learning the real meaning of joy, happiness and achievement in your own life, and how to better slough off⑤slough off丢弃；抛弃pain, failure and disappointments.

We earn, even if it is meagre⑥meagre英 ['miːgə] adj. 瘦的；贫弱的；贫乏的but a sense of independence is so cool.

We can take our parents out, even if the destination is the nearest and most affordable one but they deserve it.

Growing up is not easy! But I want to grow up.

当我们还是孩子时，我们都想长大，长大了我们又总是困惑现在该做点什么！

虽然和朋友出去仍然不能关机，被父母逼婚时仍然不能说“不”，披萨和汉堡仍然不能每天都吃！这就是人。

但等一下，做个成年人也没有看起来那么糟。

不再感觉被禁锢在身边人为你设定的一成不变的社交范畴里了。有能力选择想要交往或躲开的人。

有重要的自我洞察能力，知道什么深爱的兴趣、工作和学习最适合自己独特的个性和心理需求。

学会了自己生命中快乐、幸福和成就的真正含义，以及如何摆脱痛苦、失败和失望。

我们赚钱了，虽然赚得少，但独立的感觉真棒。

我们可以带父母出去了，虽然目的地是最近的最能承担得起的，但父母值得这样的回报。

成长并非易事！但我仍然想要长大。