LOVE YOU DAD

王惠云

While a man was polishing his new car， his four years old son picked up a stone and scratched lines

In anger， the man took the childs hand and hit it many times； not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital， the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.

When the child saw his father with painful eyes he asked， “Dad， when will my fingers grow back？”The man was so hurt and speechless； he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions... sitting in front of the car he looked at the scratches； the child had written “LOVE YOU DAD”.

If he had only controlled his anger， his son would have not lost his fingers. The man was full of regrets and wished he could bring back the time and have it corrected but he couldnt undo what has happened.

The Bible says， “A fool gives full vent to his anger， but a wise man keeps himself under control.”

And “A mans wisdom gives him patience， it is to his glory to overlook an offense.”

Anger and Love have no limits； choose the Love to have a beautiful， lovely life.

Things are to be used and people are to be loved， but the problem in todays world is that， people are used and things are loved.

Lets be careful to keep this thought in mind： "Things are to be used， but People are to be loved".

Do you love your family， friends and neighbors more than the material things？ Or you care on those things more and have neglected the people around… those people who love and care for you？

一个男人正在擦拭他的新车，这时，他四岁的儿子捡起一个石子在车子的侧面划了几条痕迹。

盛怒之下，男人抓起孩子的手狠狠地击打起来，丝毫没意识到自己手持的是扳钳。

在医院里，由于多处骨折，孩子失去了右手的五指。

看到父亲痛苦的眼神，孩子问道：“爸爸，我的手指什么时候能长出来？”

男人心如刀割、无言以对。他回到自己的车旁，冲着车狂踢不止，之后，他瘫坐在那里，抬头看着车上的划痕，发现孩子写的是：“爸爸，我爱你。”

如果他当时能够控制住自己的怒火，他的儿子就不会失去手指。男人懊悔不已，他多么希望时间能够倒转，事情可以挽回，然而，他却无能为力。

圣经上说：“愚妄人怒气全发，智慧人忍气含怒。”

又说：“人有见识，就不轻易发怒，宽恕人的过失，便是自己的荣耀。”

愤怒与爱没有界限，选择爱会让你拥有美好愉悦的生活。

东西是用来使用的，人是用来爱的，然而在当今的世界里，人是用来使唤的，东西是用来爱的。

让我们牢记这句话：“东西是用来使用的，人是用来爱的。”

你对家人、朋友和邻居的爱是否胜过对物质的热爱？还是你太过关注那些物质而忽略了你周围的人，那些关心、爱护你的人？