The importance of family environment to the growth of children

冯伊诺

In our life，we are affected by the environment all the time. These environment from different aspects play an important effect in the growth of children. Family environment，school environment and society environment effects the growth of children in a certain extent. And the family environment is on a important location in these， because it is with the growth of the children from the beginning to end. The family environment is a main environment for someone who will be educated in his life， and the parents is the first person and the mainly educator for his children， so the family environment can produce a huge influence in the growth of children.

In China， we have a word called “family law”form ancient times to now， we are all know that the influence from the family environment to children， and everyone attach important to it all the time. In the course of a day， the children will stay at home for a long time， even they will just stay at home. So in this case， what did they say and what did they do， even the expression of the eyes all will influence your children at every moment. A comfortable family environment， someone who can leads by example in the family all will help children make a health mind and a correct thinking. Oppositely， it’s possible that children may be extreme， even do some things which will influence their lives.

Today’s family is all different because of the development of society. But no matter

what how old a child is， we all can see their parents or other elders from them. The words “The child is like a father” is not only says their face， but also the expression of all kinds of the habits. If the parents is kind and gentle， then the children they bring up will must be a people like that. The words “Literary family”， it was never just expression their knowledge， what’s more， a good character from the deep culture. However， if a children’s education is from a rude and unreasonable parents， there’s a big chance of that he will not be a good man. And there always are many different examples by our side.

Finally， I think the parents should learn the followings：

At first， the parents should give their children the equality and respect they deserve. Although parents is elder than their children， but they can’t treat their children unfairly because of this. They must know if they want to a child’s education is based on they had realized their children， and knowing the children is based on respect their child. Parents should respect the child’s nature and their power， respect the child’s freedom and their choice， and respect the child’s interests and their hobby. Then the parents can try to treat their children like friends.

Secondly， the parents should give their child more encouragement and praise. The children had to grow in the direction that their parents expect， so the parents should pay attention to their speak and behavior， they have to try to avoid the negative effects of the bad words on children.  Let them grow up with confidence and hopeful environment.

The third one is the parents should set an example for children. The parents are a mirror for children， and the children are the shadow of their parents. The speak and behavior of parents are the wordless rules， the parents’ wordless rules are very important here， it is than anything， body teaching is better than words teaching. Ancient and modern， a successful man all has a good family education， so the parents want to build rules， at first they must be the example.

The importance of family environment to the growth of children is a big things for every parents should pay their attention to it. Only the parents use the correct way to educate their children， they can shape many good ideas and hobbies. And we hope every child in this world could grow up with happy， smile and love.

Feng Yinuo

Class 14， Grade 2017， East Campus，

Rizhao No.1 Middle School， Shandong Province