Module 3Body Language and Non—verbal Communication

词汇短语园地

1. spread vt. 铺开；展开；伸开；涂抹

vi. 伸展；延伸；蔓延，传染；传播

Janet spread a cloth on the desk.

珍妮在桌上铺了张桌布。

A smile spread slowly across her face.

微笑慢慢在她脸上绽开。

Seeds and pollen are spread by the wind.

种子和花粉是随风传播的。

spread out 伸开；展开；打开

spread...with... 在……上面涂抹……

spread...on/over... 在……上面涂抹……

The valley spreads out beneath us.

山谷在我们下方延伸。

He spread the bread with butter.

= He spread butter on/over the bread.

他在面包上涂抹黄油。

2. bend vt. 低下；使弯曲

vi. 弯腰；俯身

He bent his head and kissed her.

他低下头吻了她。

Slowly bend from the waist and bring your head down to your knees.

慢慢弯下腰，把头低垂到膝盖。

bend ones mind to... 把心思集中到……上

He couldnt bend his mind to his study.

他不能把心思集中到学习上。

3. stare vi. 凝视；盯着看

Its impolite to stare at others.

盯着别人瞧不礼貌。

I screamed and everyone stared.

我尖叫一声，众人都盯着看。

stare at 盯着看；凝视

stare into 瞪（某人使……）

stare sb in the face 明摆着；显而易见

I stared blankly at the paper in front of me.

我茫然地盯着面前这张纸。

She stared him into silence.

她瞪了他一眼，让他安静下来。

The answer was staring us in the face.

答案明摆在我们面前。

4. deal vt. 发牌；非法买卖（毒品）

n. 交易；协议；发牌

Start by dealing out ten cards to each player.

首先给每家发十张牌。

Did you cut a deal？

你们交易做成了吗？

They were hoping for a better pay deal.

他们希望达成一项提高工资的协议。

Its your deal.

该你发牌了。

make a deal 做成交易；达成协议

deal in 做……買卖；出售；经营

deal with 解决；处理；应付

a good/great deal （of...）（跟不可数名词）大量的（……）

a good/great deal（修饰动词）很多；修饰形容词（特别是比较级）非常；……得多

He was trying to make a deal with them.

他正试着与他们达成协议。

The company deals in computer software.

这个公司经营计算机软件。

She is used to dealing with all kinds of people in her job.

她已习惯于和工作中遇到的各种各样的人打交道。

It took a great/good deal of time.

这费了很多时间。

Im feeling a good deal better.

我感觉好多了。

dealer n. 交易商；贸易商；发牌者

5. request vt. 要求，请求

n. 要求，请求；要求的事

She requested permission to film at the White House.

她申请准许在白宫拍摄电影。

You are requested not to smoke here.

请不要在这里吸烟。

She requested that no one should be told of the news.

她要求不要把这个消息告诉任何人。

My request was granted.

我的要求得到了满足。

a request for sth 要求某物

He made a request for help.

她要求給予帮助。

6. live adj. 现场的；活的

adv. 在现场直播

v. 活着；生活；住

The doctor said he only had one year to live.

医生说他只能活一年。

I live a happy life. 我过着快乐的生活。

He lives in London. 他住在伦敦。

We saw a real live snake.

我们看见了一条活生生的蛇。

It was the first interview Id done in front of a live audience.

那是我首次当着现场观众的面做采访。

The show is going live.

这场演出正在实况直播。

比较：live，alive，living的区别

live只做定语，只用于物；alive多作表语，也可作后置定语，多用于人；living既可作定语，又可作表语，既可用于物，又可用于人。

I dont think experiments on live animals are reasonable.

我认为用活的动物做实验是不合理的。

Is that cat alive or dead？

那只猫是活着还是死了？

He has no living friends.

他没有还健在的朋友。

7. give away 暴露，泄露；捐赠；颁发

She gave away state secrets to the enemy.

她把国家机密泄露给了敌人。

His voice gave him away.

他的声音使他露馅了。

He gave away most of his money to charity.

他把他的大部分钱都捐赠给了慈善机构。

The mayor gave away the prizes at the school sports day.

市长在学校运动会那天颁发了奖项。

give back 归还；使恢复

give in 屈服；认输；投降；呈上；交上

give out 用完；耗尽；分发；散发；发出（热、光等）

give up 投降；认输；放弃；中止；抛弃

8. by accident 偶然；意外地

I met my English teacher by accident in the street.

我碰巧在街上遇见我的英语老师。

on purpose 故意地

He seems to do this bad thing on purpose.

他似乎是故意做这件坏事的。

背景大链接

How Body Language Makes You Popular肢体语言是如何让你更受欢迎的

Body language is extremely important when it comes to making good first impressions. Its always helpful to know what body cues show you in a positive light， especially during interviews or networking when youre meeting someone for the first time. It can make a difference and even make you more likeable. Keep these tips in mind when youre interacting with another person！

如果你想要创造良好的第一印象，肢体语言的作用极为重要。如果你能知道哪些肢体上的细节能给你带来正面形象，那将会对你有很大的帮助。特别是参加面试或是你第一次与人见面时，一些肢体语言能让你更受对方的青睐。在你和别人交流时记住以下小窍门吧！

Smile slowly. If youre too quick to come to a smile or drop one， your expression may not look genuine. Real smiles happen gradually， but remember not to do it too slowly because it can also look sham. Do your best to mimic a natural smile by practicing in the mirror！

渐渐露出笑容。如果你突然发笑或突然收敛笑容，你的表情看起来就会不那么自然。真实的笑容总是渐渐露出的，不过也不要笑得太慢，那样也会显得虚假。尽力在镜子前练习一下自然的微笑吧！

Make eye contact. When talking to someone， making eye contact shows interest and also confidence. Dont go overboard and gaze without breaking eye contact， because that can make people feel uncomfortable. Spend the majority of the time making eye contact， but remember to briefly take breaks.

眼神交流。当你和某人交谈时，眼神交流能表现出你的兴趣和自信。但也不要目不转睛直勾勾地盯着看，那样会让别人感觉不适。用大部分时间作眼神交流，但也要記得偶尔放松。

Have good posture. Sit or stand up straight and avoid slouching. Slouching can make you look less professional and can possibly make you look less confident and enthusiastic.

保持好姿势。坐着或站着的时候要笔直，不要没精打采。没精打采的样子会让你显得不专业，也许也会让你显得缺乏自信和热情。

Dont fidget. Dont fiddle with your hands or shake your leg because that can portray nervousness or restlessness. Relax and slow down your movements.

不要坐立不安。不要摆弄双手或抖动腿脚，那会表现出你的紧张或不安。放松一点，放慢动作。

Stay uncrossed. Keep your hands and legs uncrossed because that can make you seem cold and distant. If youre not crossing your arms， youll look more open and less guarded.

不要交叉手脚。不要叉手盘腿，因为那样会显得你很冷，有距离感。如果你没有两手交叉，你就会显得更开放，并且不那么具有防范性。